Your first name of Shonem makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. You dislike sordid conditions and harsh circumstances. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. However, procrastination is your worst enemy, and you find yourself lacking the ambition to make your dreams a reality. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.