This quality of procrastination has limited your success in many ways. Being the focus of lavish attention, makes you feel self-conscious and awkward. Your first name of Silfa has given you the desire to be independent and self-reliant. Although you dislike confrontations, you are often drawn into positions that require finesse where you are a mediator. This name detracts from the expression of your potential capabilities and limits your opportunities. You also tend to let obligations slide until you are forced to take action. Your ideas can be very original and inventive. Since you are caring and friendly, people who know you will appreciate your understanding ways and your support. At times you can become stubborn and inflexible, when actually you are either insecure or indifferent. This name does you an injustice in that it restricts your success in business and personal pursuits through a lack of ambition.