Your first name of Silja has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Being self-assured and self-reliant, you are naturally inclined toward operating your own business or accepting opportunities where your love of freedom is not curtailed. You have a forthright, matter-of-fact manner that others turn to in times of need. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. You are staunch in friendship, and others can depend upon you for guidance and assistance. Your standards of quality and efficiency are high. This name does make you quite direct and straight-to-the-point. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities.