Your first name of Sithara gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. It is not easy for you to face issues and take a stand on them, for not only are you somewhat lacking in self-confidence, but also you prefer to avoid situations in which there could be dissension. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life.