Your first name of Sjaak gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. Because others often come to you for assistance with their problems, you must guard against being drawn out to divulge confidences. You could be successful in public office where you are diligently looking after the rights of others. People like you at first meeting. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action.
