Your first name of Slanda gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. People like you at first meeting. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. You love children and would not hesitate to care for any children who might need you. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.