Your first name of Soesy makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You know what to say to bring the best response. You enjoy sociability and the good things of life, but must be aware of easy-going, good-time types of people who could draw you into experiences offering little in the way of progress. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.