Your first name of Soffa has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. Crudeness and vulgarity are very repulsive to you and you are very particular about little things. You value the beauty and peace experienced while outdoors away from crowds or the pressures of life. You may find some expression but it would usually be light conversation, rarely daring to reveal your deeper thoughts or take others into your confidence for fear of criticism or ridicule. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. Under just the right circumstances, you can be very dramatic. Being self-conscious you do not like to be the centre of attention, yet you would like to be more expressive, outgoing, and spontaneous. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do.