Your first name of Soffe gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. However, you have a good business head, practical and capable of handling responsibility for others. You make friends easily. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.