Your first name of Softe makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. Procrastination is a weakness. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.
