Your first name of Softness has given you a friendly, likeable nature, and you could excel in artistic, dramatic, and musical expression. You want very much for everyone to be happy and friendly. You enjoy spending money and are generous, but must be wary of those who would appeal to your feelings and encourage you to spend beyond your means. If given the training, you could excel in the self-expressive arts particularly in playing an instrument, in elocution, or in dancing. Your emotional feelings are easily aroused and you will always be involved in other people's problems as a result of your overly sympathetic nature. If you drive yourself, you will experience nervous problems and challenges in maintaining you equilibrium. If those around you are quarrelling, you would want to try to be the mediator to create understanding between them. You do not like to stand alone. After each experience, you have to guard against feelings of despondency and self-pity. You have high goals and ideals, but must incorporate more practicality, system, and concentration in order to materialize them.