Your first name of Solija has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. When you are with acquaintances and strangers, you tend to be reserved and reticent, shy and secretive but, on the other hand, with close friends you can sometimes be the life of the party, expressive, humorous, dramatic, and fun-loving. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. A very individual, independent person, you live within your own thoughts. You tend to scatter your efforts, often not finishing what you start, particularly when the task becomes mundane. You are loyal to your friends and go out of your way to help others. By taking a walk in nature, you can often settle turmoil within yourself. You long for love and affection and for your sensitive feelings to be understood. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life.