Your first name of Sonam gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. You are not spontaneous nor adaptable to situations where there are constant interruptions. As you live much of the time within your own thoughts, someone can be speaking to you face to face, but you will be thinking about something entirely different and have closed out the conversation. You listen for the sounds of the birds and animals, the wind in the trees, the rolling surf, gently falling rain. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. It is by actions rather than words that you show your regard for others. Your reticence has caused you to suffer aloneness and misunderstandings. It is not easy for you to be expressive, especially when you feel deeply about something. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life.