Your first name of Sothinet makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.