Your first name of Sotje gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You are not an overly aggressive person but you are earnest in carrying out your responsibilities. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. You will sacrifice your own opportunities to help others. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. Because your mind is quick and intelligent and because you are very considerate, you are able to put others at ease by turning aside contentious issues. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.
