Your first name of Starjai gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. People like you at first meeting. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.