Your first name of Tabenda has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. When you experience friendship and support from others, you feel better about yourself. As you are extremely impressionable and easily hurt and offended, you are hesitant when it comes to revealing your deeper thoughts and feelings. If someone misrepresents you or makes a joke out of something important to you, you withdraw and use silence as a method of making the person aware of the inappropriate comments. You suffer greatly with lack of confidence and self-consciousness. You could be drawn to the mysteries of life, religious or philosophical concepts, to the arts, music, or the theatre. You can so thoroughly be absorbed in a novel that you do not hear what is going on around you. Crudeness and vulgarity are very repulsive to you and you are very particular about little things. This name creates a sensitivity in the fluid functions of the body and a tendency to weakness in the respiratory organs or the female organs. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area.