Your first name of Thalhaj gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. You love children and would not hesitate to care for any children who might need you. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.