Your first name of Thandika creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. Talking comes easily to you, but you must guard against your inclination to talk too much, especially if you are overstressed. There is much confusion under this name, and your moods will fluctuate from one extreme to the other. Although you may appear confident and positive, you actually lack confidence and feel self-conscious at times. When challenged for an explanation on a matter that could cause conflict, you can almost instantly come up with an acceptable answer to deflect the issue, even if you have to stretch the truth a little. One side desires placidity, relaxation, and social activities, while the other side longs for change and travel, and opportunities that allow you to be creative and independent from all routine and interference. When you are annoyed or under excessive pressure, you must be careful not to be biting in your speech, fault-finding, and hard to please. Your name creates two conflicting natures. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily.