Your first name of Thangam creates a friendly, sociable, charming nature, but causes you to be too easily influenced by others. You may also enjoy working with children, perhaps in a daycare where you are teaching crafts and showing others how to be creative. While you find it easy to meet and mix, and can appear agreeable and compromising in conversation, you can become dogmatic and forceful if pressed too far. You like to do things your own way, learning from your own experiences. A stubborn quality within you does not allow you to accept that you may have made a mistake or said the wrong thing. You prefer situations that allow a degree of independence, but are reluctant to take on a demanding work-load or responsibility. You can be very witty and others appreciate your sense of humour. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with words of endearment and expressions of affection. Also the could be affected through headaches, weak eyes, or sinus difficulties which are aggravated by stressful living conditions and eating the wrong foods. When asked, you are able to give others good advice that you would probably not follow yourself, but must guard against being too opinionated in controversial matters.