Your first name of Thangjam makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You know what to say to bring the best response. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.