Your first name of Thao-Mi has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You are happiest when you are expressing in some artistic way, free from monotony and detail. However, self-consciousness, at times, prevents you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu self-expression. You long for love and affection and for your sensitive feelings to be understood. Your friends seldom know what to expect from you because of this dual character—friendly and charming one moment or lost in introspection the next. You find it difficult to say “no” and mean it. As you dislike monotony, you are inclined to scatter your efforts and put off handling details until you are forced to take action. You are deep, philosophical, and refined, but your extremely sensitive nature causes you to become depressed and self-pitying over any real or imagined slight. The heart and lungs could also be affected at stressful times. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.