Your first name of Thashmila creates a friendly, sociable, charming nature, but causes you to be too easily influenced by others. You have difficulty in accepting advice or being told what to do. It is sometimes difficult for you to muster the interest, initiative, and reasoning ability to concentrate and to think through complex concepts, especially in subjects that do not hold your interest. A stubborn quality within you does not allow you to accept that you may have made a mistake or said the wrong thing. You can be very obliging, helping others in times of need and neglecting your own duties. You prefer practical pastimes working with your hands, such as food preparation and cookery, or needle and craft work. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with words of endearment and expressions of affection. Your tendency to be candid, and at times abrupt, causes misunderstandings. When asked, you are able to give others good advice that you would probably not follow yourself, but must guard against being too opinionated in controversial matters. In a position dealing with the public, you could do well because of your friendly personality, interest in people, and desire to please.