Your first name of Thembela has given you a quick-minded, sensitive nature. This name does not offer you practicality, system, or concentration. If those around you are quarreling, you would want to try to be the mediator to create understanding between them. Because you are sensitive and impressionable, you are strongly affected by others and conditions around you. You are not inclined to be athletic, but prefer instead such activities as dancing and social events. People are inclined to come to you seeking solutions to their problems and, because you have the ability to sense the feelings of others, you usually give good advice. Since your life is people-oriented, you must always hold confidences and guard your tongue, as gossiping is inclined to be a weakness of your name. It is difficult for you to say “no” and mean it, as you do not like to hurt people’s feelings. Controlling your desires is challenging for you as this names makes you happy-go-lucky, carefree, and not interested in restraint and discipline. Your desire for peace at any price can result in going out of your way to avoid arguments and confrontation or hurting the feelings of others.
