Your first name of Thenoshiny makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You enjoy sociability and the good things of life, but must be aware of easy-going, good-time types of people who could draw you into experiences offering little in the way of progress. You know what to say to bring the best response. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.