Your first name of Tolman has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You seldom like your time to be organized rigidly by others, but like to do things in your own way, at your own time. A very individual, independent person, you live within your own thoughts. You are loyal to your friends and go out of your way to help others. You are happiest when you are expressing in some artistic way, free from monotony and detail. You find it difficult to say “no” and mean it. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. People tend to be guarded in handling your over-sensitive qualities. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring.