Your first name of Tosandra has given you the desire for the best that money can buy: good clothes and refined surroundings, all the finer things of life, although you might be inclined to get things through the influence of others rather than through hard work. Unless these qualities are strengthened by other names you use, you rely on others for encouragement and assurance to carry out your responsibilities and to help you make decisions. You appear self-assured in all circumstances. Elegant surroundings, quality attire, these things appeal to your desire for refinement and culture. Relaxation, peace, and harmony mean a lot to you. Being relegated to doing monotonous tasks does not appeal to your sophisticated qualities. You are pleasant and diplomatic, and seem to sense how others feel. Disliking confrontations, you rely on tact and diplomacy to deal with issues. Difficulty in coming to important decisions and a degree of passivity do not allow you the concentration and application required to attain positions of responsibility. Being very fond of comfort and somewhat passive, you find it a challenge at times to push yourself to go on a diet or to exercise.