Your first name of Tossalyn gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. Once you settle in to accomplish a task, you like to carry it through to completion, quietly and efficiently. It is not easy for you to be expressive, especially when you feel deeply about something. However, you have a dignity and poise that allow you to handle responsible positions in business. You appear aloof and, as a result, others do not realize how important affection and understanding are to you. You are inclined to be secretive, sometimes suspicious of others, and you seldom reveal your innermost thoughts until you are comfortable and trusting of someone. You are a serious nature and could be subject to momentary moods of depression, thoughts of jealousy, and lack of confidence. If you sense that someone is being inquisitive about you and your life, you are adept at steering the conversation to other topics, or not answering questions directly. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.