Your first name of Tylaja gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. People like you at first meeting. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.