Your first name, Vian, creates an independent, determined, and persevering nature. You feel awkward and embarrassed because you recognize your verbal restrictions in not being able to be as diplomatic, sympathetic, and solicitous, as others would like. Being much focused on your pursuits, at times you overlook the personal considerations and attentions that create understanding and companionship with others. You are inventive and ingenious along practical lines, and you learn from your own experiences. When you are challenged in this way, it is frustrating for you not to be able to find the words to handle confrontational situations. You are not afraid to try new activities in order to lead the way for others. It is not a part of your nature to observe and return in kind the little attentions and gestures of affection of close associates. You have a great deal of drive and initiative. You are loyal in friendships and express candidly. You enjoy outdoors activities with a few close friends.
