Your first name of Xamilia gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. There are times when you allow procrastination to be a weakness, putting off monotonous tasks until you are forced to take action. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. You make friends easily. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.
