Your first name of Xelfina gives you a responsible, self-sufficient, and dependable nature. You appreciate settled, accumulative conditions, and a high standard of living. Appreciating quality in all things, you desire to be prosperous. You retain your poise and equanimity under stress and use logic and reason in handling difficult situations. This name gives you many good qualities, but it is too strong, creating a materialistic nature and bringing out a forceful, demanding quality. In a marriage or family, you are often required to make the major decisions. If you have been given the opportunity, you could do well in business developing your leadership, administrative, and managing abilities. Very likely you have assumed much responsibility early in life and are often required to make the major decisions. You have a strong, determined nature and you must be careful that you do not dominate or interfere in the lives of others in your desire to be helpful. This name makes you too forceful at times, limiting the natural feminine qualities of tenderness and tact.