Your first name of Xiang-Ting has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. It is sometimes challenging for you to listen to and understand the viewpoints of others because your own opinions are strong, sensible, and rational. Because you tend to be somewhat of a perfectionist, you might insist on doing too many things yourself instead of delegating jobs to others who might do less satisfactory work. Having everything under control is important to you as it reflects your capable, serious nature. You do not change your mind readily. You have a forthright, matter-of-fact manner that others turn to in times of need. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people.