Your first name of Xianjai creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. When you are feeling relaxed and cheerful, you can be very charming and able to say just the right thing to compliment or inspire someone. Talking comes easily to you, but you must guard against your inclination to talk too much, especially if you are overstressed. When you are annoyed or under excessive pressure, you must be careful not to be biting in your speech, fault-finding, and hard to please. Although you may appear confident and positive, you actually lack confidence and feel self-conscious at times. One side desires placidity, relaxation, and social activities, while the other side longs for change and travel, and opportunities that allow you to be creative and independent from all routine and interference. The qualities in this name tend to narrow your opportunities by hindering your ability to concentrate. You make the effort to communicate with others because you place importance on having people like you. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily.
