Your first name of Xiao-Jing gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. As you live much of the time within your own thoughts, someone can be speaking to you face to face, but you will be thinking about something entirely different and have closed out the conversation. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. You are intellectual and not easily swayed through the emotions. These aspects are dear to you and touch you deeply. When called upon to extemporize, you could be self-conscious and nervous as you prefer to be fully prepared ahead of time to handle situations and experiences. You do not have many close friends. As you are a private person, it is a challenge for others to get to know and understand you. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.
