Your first name of Xiao-Ying has given you an eagerness for knowledge and an intense desire to do something worthwhile in life. You experience self-consciousness and discomfort in association whenever it seems to be nothing but meaningless chitchat and sociability. Impulsive reactions and anger could create mishaps and accidents. It is rather difficult for you to express your deeper thoughts and feelings unless you are very sure you will not be misunderstood. You find it easier to write your thoughts. As you resent interference, and are extremely self-reliant and proud, it is difficult for you to ask another person for help during trying times. You are drawn to conversations in which you can learn something new. You crave to be understood and appreciated, but your aloofness and self-contained nature often rebuff the affection and love you so much desire. Many people do not realize that you have a depth to your nature resulting from having thought a lot about life in many facets. At times, you may be subject to insomnia through an inability to relax.