Your first name of Xiaomi gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. Your feelings are better expressed through writing. You prefer positions where your independence and love of freedom are not curtailed, where there is not the constant demands of people. As you rarely disclose aspects of your personal life, others must persevere in getting to know you. You are inclined to be secretive, sometimes suspicious of others, and you seldom reveal your innermost thoughts until you are comfortable and trusting of someone. However, you have a dignity and poise that allow you to handle responsible positions in business. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.