Your first name of Xiaoming has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. You suffer greatly with lack of confidence and self-consciousness. As you are extremely impressionable and easily hurt and offended, you are hesitant when it comes to revealing your deeper thoughts and feelings. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. Being self-conscious you do not like to be the centre of attention, yet you would like to be more expressive, outgoing, and spontaneous. You always wonder if you are doing the right thing, desiring to express yourself but afraid to. Crudeness and vulgarity are very repulsive to you and you are very particular about little things. Your deep affection for and devotion to others expresses naturally in an atmosphere of understanding. This name creates a sensitivity in the fluid functions of the body and a tendency to weakness in the respiratory organs or the female organs. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do.