Your first name of Xiaoqi has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. People tend to be guarded in handling your over-sensitive qualities. You enjoy reading and can become so absorbed that you are unaware of what is happening around you. You find it difficult to say “no” and mean it. On the other hand, among friends with whom you feel at ease, you are expressive, witty, and quite charming. However, self-consciousness, at times, prevents you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu self-expression. Your close friends are few. You tend to scatter your efforts, often not finishing what you start, particularly when the task becomes mundane. The heart and lungs could also be affected at stressful times. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring.