Your first name of Xiaoyan makes you a capable leader and organizer. Fairness is important to you and you could be drawn to the justice system. You could be financially generous to causes you deem worthy. You find it difficult to be in positions of subservience or where you are taking advice from others. There is a desire to manage a large organization or to direct the efforts of others. Personal relationships may suffer because of your disregard for the emotional needs of others, especially if they are sensitive or inspirational and crave affection and reassurance. Becoming totally involved in business can be at the sacrifice of a harmonious family life. You may feel it is sufficient to express your appreciation by providing material comforts. This name makes you too forceful at times, limiting the natural feminine qualities of tenderness and tact. Personal relationships suffer sometimes because you are inclined to overlook the little things, such as thoughtful and appreciative gestures.
