Your first name of Xielo makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.