Your first name of Xilian has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. This name does make you quite direct and straight-to-the-point. You prefer a simple, uncomplicated life where you can apply originality and ingenuity to express your creative talents. You do not change your mind readily. You take your responsibilities seriously and have a deep appreciation for family and the home environment. Self-consciousness and lack of expression limit your ability to give in this way. You are staunch in friendship, and others can depend upon you for guidance and assistance. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity.
