Your first name of Xiolani makes you a quick thinker, both philosophical and creative. Others impose upon your generosity at times, and you do not always reap the rewards for all that you do. When you feel you are understood, you then must guard against jealousy and possessiveness. As you dislike monotony, you are inclined to scatter your efforts and put off handling details until you are forced to take action. On the other hand, among friends with whom you feel at ease, you are expressive, witty, and quite charming. You are loyal to your friends and go out of your way to help others. You are deep, philosophical, and refined, but your extremely sensitive nature causes you to become depressed and self-pitying over any real or imagined slight. Occasionally, when you are unhappy or disappointed by something, you can be moody and temperamental, and feel misunderstood and unappreciated. The heart and lungs could also be affected at stressful times. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life.