Your first name of Xioyu creates a desire to be of service to others, but its practicality and attention to detail restrict spontaneity. In fact, you find it disturbing to have to make a quick decision or break your routine. You desire your life to be orderly and systematized and you keep your surroundings neat and tidy, but others often see you as fussy over little things. You enjoy working with your hands in such activities as cooking, baking, or craft work. Once you decide what you want to accomplish, little can change your mind. Once you have a plan, you like to complete it. Having enough put away gives you a sense of security. You are quite content to follow a routine lifestyle and prefer to avoid the uncertainty that comes with change. Friction in association could result if you are critical of those who do not live up to your regard for system and detail. You appreciate a settled home environment that permits you to show your love for friends and family through what you do for them rather than having to express your feelings in words.