Your first name of Zarhildr has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. Your verbal expression does not reflect your inner thoughts and feelings, and you often wonder why people react to what you say. You have a forthright, matter-of-fact manner that others turn to in times of need. You are practical and steadfast but at times too limited in your personal opinions and ideas. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. You do not change your mind readily. It is sometimes challenging for you to listen to and understand the viewpoints of others because your own opinions are strong, sensible, and rational. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people.