Your first name, Zelfije, creates an independent, determined, and persevering nature. It is not a part of your nature to observe and return in kind the little attentions and gestures of affection of close associates. You feel awkward and embarrassed because you recognize your verbal restrictions in not being able to be as diplomatic, sympathetic, and solicitous, as others would like. You appreciate a simple life. You do not like crowds, you like to be on your own or with a few close friends. When you are challenged in this way, it is frustrating for you not to be able to find the words to handle confrontational situations. You enjoy working with your hands and can be resourceful and inventive along practical lines. Outdoor activities such as exploring, camping, hiking, or climbing are pursuits you enjoy as they provide an outlet for your active, vital nature. You are loyal in friendships and express candidly. This name causes weaknesses to the senses of the head.