Your first name of Zhelmie has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Because you tend to be somewhat of a perfectionist, you might insist on doing too many things yourself instead of delegating jobs to others who might do less satisfactory work. Your standards of quality and efficiency are high. You are practical and steadfast but at times too limited in your personal opinions and ideas. Your accomplishments give you a great deal of satisfaction, and involvement in social activities can sometimes make you feel that you are wasting time. Managing the home, caring for the family, and expressing your creativity in such pursuits as cooking, dressmaking, or interior design is of interest to you. Self-consciousness and lack of expression limit your ability to give in this way. Being relaxed and spontaneous in social or formal situations is sometimes challenging. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity.
