Your first name of Zhoemy makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You enjoy sociability and the good things of life, but must be aware of easy-going, good-time types of people who could draw you into experiences offering little in the way of progress. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. However, procrastination is your worst enemy, and you find yourself lacking the ambition to make your dreams a reality. You dislike sordid conditions and harsh circumstances. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.