Your first name of Zhontille gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. You have a strong emotional nature that, if not kept under control, could be detrimental to your health or result in problems in close personal relationships. It is not easy for you to face issues and take a stand on them, for not only are you somewhat lacking in self-confidence, but also you prefer to avoid situations in which there could be dissension. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood.
