Your first name of Abeke gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. You are not an overly aggressive person but you are earnest in carrying out your responsibilities. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. You could be successful in public office where you are diligently looking after the rights of others. You have an appreciation of beauty in many forms, and enjoy musical and artistic expression along with all the refinements of life. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.